Comments on: Dealing with Frustration http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 22:32:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: T.J.Daniels http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-1144307 T.J.Daniels Fri, 18 Nov 2011 01:07:28 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/#comment-1144307 Hey Scott, Read your article. Written from a true 20 something perspective of someone who just got out in the real world after being isolated for four years of college surrounded by more 20 somethings. Giving advice is easy, living it out is not. Let me know after you have witnessed personal tragedies, had your company pull out of State and your job with it, had your child in the hospital for a serious injury or medical condition, been to one too many funerals, dealt with difficult bosses, friends, spouses, etc etc. Life is hard and to sprew out Anthony Robbins crap does a disservice to all the people who find themselves struggling and don't know where to turn. Wakjob is on the right track. Sometimes you just suck it up, quit making excuses and just do what you have to do to feed your family and survive. Where is it written you are guaranteed an easy or even a happy life? Granted, it's a matter of perspective but like I said, let's talk in about 20 years when you actually have experienced what some of these folks are walking out. Then you have cred... Hey Scott,
Read your article. Written from a true 20 something perspective of someone who just got out in the real world after being isolated for four years of college surrounded by more 20 somethings. Giving advice is easy, living it out is not. Let me know after you have witnessed personal tragedies, had your company pull out of State and your job with it, had your child in the hospital for a serious injury or medical condition, been to one too many funerals, dealt with difficult bosses, friends, spouses, etc etc. Life is hard and to sprew out Anthony Robbins crap does a disservice to all the people who find themselves struggling and don’t know where to turn. Wakjob is on the right track. Sometimes you just suck it up, quit making excuses and just do what you have to do to feed your family and survive. Where is it written you are guaranteed an easy or even a happy life? Granted, it’s a matter of perspective but like I said, let’s talk in about 20 years when you actually have experienced what some of these folks are walking out. Then you have cred…

]]> By: Wakjob http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-1109093 Wakjob Mon, 31 Oct 2011 11:39:02 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/#comment-1109093 You're frustrated and that's good. Why? Because *frustrations are the universe's door to success*. That's right. Ghandi once said "First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they attack you, then you win". Thomas Edison said "I failed my way to success". What most people do not realize is achieving anything in life IS HARD. There is no EASY way. Only champions take the prize. When you see an olympic skater win the gold metal and awe everyone, what you DIDN'T see was the years of 16 hour days, all the mistakes, all the failure, all the wanting to give up, AND all the perserverance. You onky saw the triumph, not the years of agony needed to get there. Do you want to be a champion? Then KEEP TRYING. The universe is like a huge hill you are trying to push your goal up. A first you WILL GET NOWHERE. You keep pushing and still get nowhere. But if you keep pushing after that, something funny happens - slowly, it starts to get easier little by little. If you continue to persist, soon you will realize your goal is reachable. Before you know it you will make it. Once there you will realize nothing but death can really stop you. If you keep going after that, soon you become a master. What people don't know is SUCESS IS HARD, not easy. If you are not willing to pay the price of a champion, you can never have the prize. You’re frustrated and that’s good. Why? Because *frustrations are the universe’s door to success*. That’s right. Ghandi once said “First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they attack you, then you win”. Thomas Edison said “I failed my way to success”. What most people do not realize is achieving anything in life IS HARD. There is no EASY way. Only champions take the prize. When you see an olympic skater win the gold metal and awe everyone, what you DIDN’T see was the years of 16 hour days, all the mistakes, all the failure, all the wanting to give up, AND all the perserverance. You onky saw the triumph, not the years of agony needed to get there. Do you want to be a champion? Then KEEP TRYING. The universe is like a huge hill you are trying to push your goal up. A first you WILL GET NOWHERE. You keep pushing and still get nowhere. But if you keep pushing after that, something funny happens – slowly, it starts to get easier little by little. If you continue to persist, soon you will realize your goal is reachable. Before you know it you will make it. Once there you will realize nothing but death can really stop you. If you keep going after that, soon you become a master. What people don’t know is SUCESS IS HARD, not easy. If you are not willing to pay the price of a champion, you can never have the prize.

]]> By: nicoline http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-795681 nicoline Wed, 18 May 2011 19:45:30 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/#comment-795681 Hi Scott, thanks for for suggestions. i went to the law school with the intention of becomming a magistrate. on graguation unfortunately, court registry was what i met. not realy loving this work in the first place, i have never been given the chance to practice. i was transferred to the supreme court since Jan.2010 but i'm yet to effectively resume work because those who were also transferred from this court are yet to liberate their places for us and even those on retirement and duly notified since 10years ago donnot want to free their places. the have the support of the president of the court. tell me how to manage such a frustrating situation . the work in its self is so stutufying ie not intellectually challenging and i hold a masters in intellectual property law . please guide me if you can. THANKS Hi Scott,
thanks for for suggestions. i went to the law school with the intention of becomming a magistrate. on graguation unfortunately, court registry was what i met. not realy loving this work in the first place, i have never been given the chance to practice. i was transferred to the supreme court since Jan.2010 but i’m yet to effectively resume work because those who were also transferred from this court are yet to liberate their places for us and even those on retirement and duly notified since 10years ago donnot want to free their places. the have the support of the president of the court. tell me how to manage such a frustrating situation . the work in its self is so stutufying ie not intellectually challenging and i hold a masters in intellectual property law . please guide me if you can.
THANKS

]]> By: Glenn http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-714487 Glenn Thu, 17 Mar 2011 15:46:54 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/#comment-714487 I needed this information today. It's helping. Thank you! I needed this information today. It’s helping. Thank you!

]]> By: june http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-709734 june Sun, 13 Mar 2011 05:19:38 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/#comment-709734 Thanx for a great thoughts on frustration. I work with the development of boys from the street to help turn their lives around. We have been very succesful in the past but lately everything seems to end in frustration. This morning I realized that I've got so frustrated that all I'm attracting into my life is more frustration. So your article was a start to turn this around. Thanx for a great thoughts on frustration. I work with the development of boys from the street to help turn their lives around. We have been very succesful in the past but lately everything seems to end in frustration. This morning I realized that I’ve got so frustrated that all I’m attracting into my life is more frustration. So your article was a start to turn this around.

]]> By: TUESDAY’S TIMELY TIPS: 7 Tips for Relieving Frustration | Unflappable Phoebe http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-681703 TUESDAY’S TIMELY TIPS: 7 Tips for Relieving Frustration | Unflappable Phoebe Tue, 15 Feb 2011 20:56:49 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/#comment-681703 [...] 7. Take a step toward accomplishing your goal, whether that step proves to be successful or not. Almost any step will work as long as it gets you out of your mire. [...] [...] 7. Take a step toward accomplishing your goal, whether that step proves to be successful or not. Almost any step will work as long as it gets you out of your mire. [...]

]]> By: Pete http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-479229 Pete Sat, 02 Oct 2010 20:55:00 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/#comment-479229 Thanks for the good advice. Sometimes it helps when I get frustrated to remember that I'm just a hairless ape with car keys. Thanks for the good advice. Sometimes it helps when I get frustrated to remember that I’m just a hairless ape with car keys.

]]> By: Kyle http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-457252 Kyle Mon, 23 Aug 2010 11:17:26 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/#comment-457252 Oh I almost forgot to say that everyone experiences frustrations is a fallacy to make people 'ignore the virus' and treat the symptoms. I have personally seen how people can be always cheerful and never lose energy as if they have an unlimited "battery" to tap into and other people are always dragging and cannot tap into any energy source at all and just feel constantly tired with poor health. I don't believe these naturally 'happy' people are invincible by any means like they think they are and they don't have a clue as to how LUCKY they are to be that happy. It could very well be part of my reincarnation theroy where these "happy slappy" people have cleared negative karma a gazillion lifetimes ago. Oh I almost forgot to say that everyone experiences frustrations is a fallacy to make people ‘ignore the virus’ and treat the symptoms.

I have personally seen how people can be always cheerful and never lose energy as if they have an unlimited “battery” to tap into and other people are always dragging and cannot tap into any energy source at all and just feel constantly tired with poor health.

I don’t believe these naturally ‘happy’ people are invincible by any means like they think they are and they don’t have a clue as to how LUCKY they are to be that happy.

It could very well be part of my reincarnation theroy where these “happy slappy” people have cleared negative karma a gazillion lifetimes ago.

]]> By: Kyle http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-457249 Kyle Mon, 23 Aug 2010 11:12:41 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/#comment-457249 It sucks some people like me and other readers are more prone to frustrations and drained energy while others can be happy all their lives no matter what is thrown at them and they never seem to lose a speck of energy. I truly belive reincarnation may play a role where we have had inner negative energy pass thru that we never TRULY solved which will come in the form of experiences in this-life time: however I don't believe that humans ever mixed with animals and vica versa which is where some people go nuts on. It sucks some people like me and other readers are more prone to frustrations and drained energy while others can be happy all their lives no matter what is thrown at them and they never seem to lose a speck of energy.

I truly belive reincarnation may play a role where we have had inner negative energy pass thru that we never TRULY solved which will come in the form of experiences in this-life time: however I don’t believe that humans ever mixed with animals and vica versa which is where some people go nuts on.

]]> By: linz http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-433749 linz Sat, 12 Jun 2010 23:39:07 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2006/06/10/dealing-with-frustration/#comment-433749 This is very good advice. I tend to forget that frustration in life is normal and unpleasant for everyone, not just me, and that I need to learn how to deal with it rather than just avoid it. This is very good advice. I tend to forget that frustration in life is normal and unpleasant for everyone, not just me, and that I need to learn how to deal with it rather than just avoid it.

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