Comments on: The Critical 7 Rules To Understand People http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/ Thu, 29 Jul 2010 01:29:16 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: AH http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/comment-page-3/#comment-446870 AH Wed, 21 Jul 2010 18:42:57 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/#comment-446870 Your observation [that people focus on themselves] is similar to what Dale Carnegie suggested in many of his books...... Your observation [that people focus on themselves] is similar to what Dale Carnegie suggested in many of his books……

]]> By: Interesting Stock Market Related Articles :: Stock Market Training Course,Technical Analysis Course,Share Market Education http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/comment-page-3/#comment-442306 Interesting Stock Market Related Articles :: Stock Market Training Course,Technical Analysis Course,Share Market Education Mon, 05 Jul 2010 10:11:31 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/#comment-442306 [...] the critical 7 rules to understand people – my headline might sound overreaching. clearly a rule can’t define something as complex as human behavior. but despite this, i’ve found most people tend to make the same mistakes. these mistakes are frequent enough that they create … [...] [...] the critical 7 rules to understand people – my headline might sound overreaching. clearly a rule can’t define something as complex as human behavior. but despite this, i’ve found most people tend to make the same mistakes. these mistakes are frequent enough that they create … [...]

]]> By: Andriy Guravskyy http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/comment-page-3/#comment-441838 Andriy Guravskyy Sat, 03 Jul 2010 02:54:09 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/#comment-441838 I completely disagree with you.You need to have a prespective in life and understanding and knowledge of others and their things so it would be easyer to get to where u want to go. As I read you shit, you completly deny of any of this, which is why I don't like you I completely disagree with you.You need to have a prespective in life and understanding and knowledge of others and their things so it would be easyer to get to where u want to go. As I read you shit, you completly deny of any of this, which is why I don’t like you

]]> By: Franis http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/comment-page-3/#comment-419613 Franis Sun, 23 May 2010 08:16:18 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/#comment-419613 "Hesitate to attribute to malice what can be explained as thoughtlessness." is the one sort of like yours. I like the addition of conceit to that. I like Laura Huxley's advice: "You are not the target" Which is pretty much an admonition to "get over yourself." The strange kicker, (if someone follows your advice,) is it develops a tacit agreement with others that you're going to be the one with the responsibility to keep up both ends of the relationship. I know, I've been doing these things you recommend because I thought they were a Good Idea too - (for a few decades now.) Somehow other people imagine I'm always going to be the one to initiate contact with them and they don't need to indicate to me that they'd like to make contact with me. Sort of irritating after awhile, it made me feel burned out eventually. “Hesitate to attribute to malice what can be explained as thoughtlessness.” is the one sort of like yours. I like the addition of conceit to that.
I like Laura Huxley’s advice: “You are not the target” Which is pretty much an admonition to “get over yourself.”

The strange kicker, (if someone follows your advice,) is it develops a tacit agreement with others that you’re going to be the one with the responsibility to keep up both ends of the relationship. I know, I’ve been doing these things you recommend because I thought they were a Good Idea too – (for a few decades now.) Somehow other people imagine I’m always going to be the one to initiate contact with them and they don’t need to indicate to me that they’d like to make contact with me. Sort of irritating after awhile, it made me feel burned out eventually.

]]> By: bari http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/comment-page-3/#comment-412982 bari Sun, 09 May 2010 18:43:35 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/#comment-412982 I can simply say its great. I can simply say its great.

]]> By: Buffy http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/comment-page-3/#comment-404995 Buffy Fri, 23 Apr 2010 23:44:04 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/#comment-404995 It's so true, sometimes we alienate our selves from others because we think we are different then them; but get right down to it, we are all the same. We all suffer in the same sort of ways and we also seek love and happiness to dominate our lives. Thanks for the perfect reminders! It’s so true, sometimes we alienate our selves from others because we think we are different then them; but get right down to it, we are all the same. We all suffer in the same sort of ways and we also seek love and happiness to dominate our lives.
Thanks for the perfect reminders!

]]> By: Peta http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/comment-page-3/#comment-400141 Peta Wed, 14 Apr 2010 09:17:50 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/#comment-400141 Thanks so much for your great article, Scott. Can you recommend any literature that expands on these ideas? Thanks so much for your great article, Scott.

Can you recommend any literature that expands on these ideas?

]]> By: Travis http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/comment-page-3/#comment-398207 Travis Wed, 07 Apr 2010 20:07:34 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/#comment-398207 Haha, Amy's a pretty good example. Haha, Amy’s a pretty good example.

]]> By: amy http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/comment-page-3/#comment-395736 amy Wed, 31 Mar 2010 16:42:22 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/#comment-395736 this was very intresting, im writing a speech on understanding people and i think it would be more helpful if you included some real stories of the concepts in action this was very intresting, im writing a speech on understanding people and i think it would be more helpful if you included some real stories of the concepts in action

]]> By: Adrianne http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/comment-page-3/#comment-394297 Adrianne Thu, 25 Mar 2010 14:52:13 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2007/08/28/the-critical-7-rules-to-understand-people/#comment-394297 I have read this post a few times because it is so basic and helpful to be reminded that what people do, say, and or not, is MOSTLY if not all about them. I have read this post a few times because it is so basic and helpful to be reminded that what people do, say, and or not, is MOSTLY if not all about them.

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