Comments on: How to Be More Social http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 22:32:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Josh http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/comment-page-1/#comment-1125144 Josh Wed, 09 Nov 2011 06:13:00 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/#comment-1125144 On another article of yours that I read the other day, I said you earned yourself a new follower.... wow this has simply not changed! I love this site! On another article of yours that I read the other day, I said you earned yourself a new follower…. wow this has simply not changed! I love this site!

]]> By: Vipul Shah http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/comment-page-1/#comment-1039826 Vipul Shah Wed, 28 Sep 2011 09:04:51 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/#comment-1039826 Hi Scott, Very good article! To add to this, one more point is to think good about yourself. Many a times not able to initiate a discussion with other people is mainly because you feel the other person may not like you which essentially stems from your low self esteem. Vipul Shah Hi Scott,
Very good article!
To add to this, one more point is to think good about yourself. Many a times not able to initiate a discussion with other people is mainly because you feel the other person may not like you which essentially stems from your low self esteem.

Vipul Shah

]]> By: hazi http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/comment-page-1/#comment-979505 hazi Thu, 01 Sep 2011 06:44:55 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/#comment-979505 I'm 18 years old and i'm a socially inactive i think....i feel like a alien at certain times...i have friends few friends actually who i knew a long time and they are similar to me to, they can't meet a new friend or go to parties or meet new people. It's the same friends we don't hang out together even one guy hangs out with me then my other buddy who knows the other guy hangs out me but can't hangout with each other, it's a complicated situation, someone help me this is ruining everything and it won't allow me to meet new people or talk to new people without making everything totally awkward. HELP ASAP PLEASE!!! I’m 18 years old and i’m a socially inactive i think….i feel like a alien at certain times…i have friends few friends actually who i knew a long time and they are similar to me to, they can’t meet a new friend or go to parties or meet new people. It’s the same friends we don’t hang out together even one guy hangs out with me then my other buddy who knows the other guy hangs out me but can’t hangout with each other, it’s a complicated situation, someone help me this is ruining everything and it won’t allow me to meet new people or talk to new people without making everything totally awkward. HELP ASAP PLEASE!!!

]]> By: krisna http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/comment-page-1/#comment-975313 krisna Mon, 29 Aug 2011 20:47:16 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/#comment-975313 Hey Scott Great post... Enjoyed reading it... Especially about building relationship and not just starting it with a good example... I would like to share something about me... I am introvert by nature as I am the only one who knows me well... I like to spend time with myself on personal development... I was calm and studious in school... In high schools I went away from home... Being away from home, in a hostel was an enjoyable experience of freedom... At that time I was very fun loving... I was feeling so happy,enriched and close to my true self even I was having many groups of friends... I was more productive too at that time... After highschools I came back home... Right now I am 27... Working and living with my parents at the same place and my life has become a routine since 4 years... I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who is in some other country... After highschools eventually i lost my friends as most of them are married now... I also lost interest in making new friends especially boys coz i had breakups in past... I feel lonely now... My boyfriend is very good... But still I miss "friends" in my life... I feel they make life... I am going to work on it again... And I come to read your post accidently while googling about how to become social... Hey Victoria I agree.. It really feels good to let it out.. Hey Miss Flurry I appreciate your thoughts Thanx to Scott Hey Scott
Great post… Enjoyed reading it… Especially about building relationship and not just starting it with a good example…

I would like to share something about me… I am introvert by nature as I am the only one who knows me well… I like to spend time with myself on personal development… I was calm and studious in school… In high schools I went away from home… Being away from home, in a hostel was an enjoyable experience of freedom… At that time I was very fun loving… I was feeling so happy,enriched and close to my true self even I was having many groups of friends… I was more productive too at that time… After highschools I came back home… Right now I am 27… Working and living with my parents at the same place and my life has become a routine since 4 years… I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who is in some other country… After highschools eventually i lost my friends as most of them are married now… I also lost interest in making new friends especially boys coz i had breakups in past… I feel lonely now… My boyfriend is very good… But still I miss “friends” in my life… I feel they make life… I am going to work on it again… And I come to read your post accidently while googling about how to become social…

Hey Victoria
I agree..
It really feels good to let it out..

Hey Miss Flurry
I appreciate your thoughts

Thanx to Scott

]]> By: hadi http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/comment-page-1/#comment-918701 hadi Wed, 27 Jul 2011 18:15:28 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/#comment-918701 great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks for sharing! great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks for sharing!

]]> By: Social Natural http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/comment-page-1/#comment-869860 Social Natural Wed, 06 Jul 2011 20:57:56 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/#comment-869860 Great point you brought up. There is a mistake in thinking that being cool is being great socially. Thinking back to high school, being cool does not necessary mean being social. There is a select group only a few can be a part of off, and most of these folks were in it out of feeling good to be a part of something, and not truly for the friendship. Great point you brought up. There is a mistake in thinking that being cool is being great socially. Thinking back to high school, being cool does not necessary mean being social. There is a select group only a few can be a part of off, and most of these folks were in it out of feeling good to be a part of something, and not truly for the friendship.

]]> By: Joseph http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/comment-page-1/#comment-826729 Joseph Wed, 08 Jun 2011 23:39:16 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/#comment-826729 Wow... Thanks scott for this wonderful article! Wow… Thanks scott for this wonderful article!

]]> By: Alex http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/comment-page-1/#comment-809188 Alex Sun, 29 May 2011 21:15:04 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/#comment-809188 I have a question. I'm 18 years old and have no friends because i was a in door kid, how can i litterally meet peopel? what i mean by that is like how, when, and where would i go to people and i dont know say hi or something. I have a question. I’m 18 years old and have no friends because i was a in door kid, how can i litterally meet peopel? what i mean by that is like how, when, and where would i go to people and i dont know say hi or something.

]]> By: Patrick http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/comment-page-1/#comment-718606 Patrick Mon, 21 Mar 2011 07:23:22 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/#comment-718606 Hay i am pats and i am relly funny and can ussely make people laff sorry my speeling is pretty bad eny way but i do not have eny frinds how would tell my one of there secrets to or there problims i was woundring if mybe u could give me some pointers on what to do Hay i am pats and i am relly funny and can ussely make people laff sorry my speeling is pretty bad eny way but i do not have eny frinds how would tell my one of there secrets to or there problims i was woundring if mybe u could give me some pointers on what to do

]]> By: Michael A. Robson http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/comment-page-1/#comment-573278 Michael A. Robson Mon, 20 Dec 2010 00:58:56 +0000 http://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2008/12/22/how-to-be-more-social/#comment-573278 "Be Friendly, Not Cool" Awesome, one the smartest things I've read in a while. “Be Friendly, Not Cool”

Awesome, one the smartest things I’ve read in a while.

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