{"id":461,"date":"2011-01-14T09:31:04","date_gmt":"2011-01-14T17:31:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/scotthyoung.com\/members\/?p=461"},"modified":"2011-01-14T09:31:04","modified_gmt":"2011-01-14T17:31:04","slug":"ass-kicking-email-the-mental-hack-that-will-cause-you-to-win-or-fail","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/?p=461","title":{"rendered":"Ass-Kicking Email &#8211; The mental hack that will cause you to win or fail"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hey,<\/p>\n<p>Today I&#8217;m going to share a bit about one mental hack I won&#8217;t be<br \/>\nwriting an implementation guide on, but is probably more important<br \/>\nthan any I&#8217;ve written or will write in the future.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>The Greatest Mental Hack&#8230; Attitude<\/p>\n<p>Okay, so maybe it isn&#8217;t as sexy-sounding as visceralization or<br \/>\nspeed reading, but in all honesty, attitude will determine whether<br \/>\nyou succeed or fail more than anything else.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s already been so much written about attitude, I&#8217;ll save you<br \/>\nthe motivational speech. Instead, I&#8217;d like to focus on one element,<br \/>\nshared to me by Kalid Azad.<\/p>\n<p>This is the importance of admitting things are difficult.<\/p>\n<p>I know I can sound a bit hand-wavy at times. But the truth is,<br \/>\nlearning is often difficult. Fiendishly difficult.<\/p>\n<p>Calculus, foreign languages, memorizing biological terms. This is<br \/>\ndifficult stuff. If you&#8217;re in university or a difficult high-school<br \/>\nprogram, you need to congratulate yourself for tackling the subjects<br \/>\nmost people fail.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t succeed in these subjects by assuming they will be easy,<br \/>\nor assuming they&#8217;ll be easy just because you&#8217;ve used metaphors,<br \/>\nspeed reading or some other method. Yes, learning tactics can make<br \/>\nyou perform better and faster, but they don&#8217;t immediately make your<br \/>\njob easier.<\/p>\n<p>Accepting that you&#8217;re up against a difficult subject allows you to<br \/>\nharness the focus to really tackle it.<\/p>\n<p>When I started learning French, one of my first admissions was that<br \/>\nI had no idea how a person could learn a foreign language. All that<br \/>\naudio sounded like gibberish, how could someone possible follow it?<br \/>\nThere were hundreds of thousand of words to learn, different grammar<br \/>\nconstructions, there was a lot of work.<\/p>\n<p>But once I accepted that it was difficult, perhaps very difficult,<br \/>\nI needed to follow that up with another important attitude: it is<br \/>\ndoable.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, language learning might be difficult. But people for tens of<br \/>\nthousands of years have learned to speak foreign languages. People<br \/>\nare putting in the effort and succeeding every day. If they can do<br \/>\nit, I can too.<\/p>\n<p>The same is true for whatever you&#8217;re learning. Yes, it might be<br \/>\nincredibly difficult and accepting that will focus you to put the<br \/>\neffort in. But also realize that people succeed every day at<br \/>\nlearning your subject *because* they put in the effort.<\/p>\n<p>And you can too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, Today I&#8217;m going to share a bit about one mental hack I won&#8217;t be writing an implementation guide on, but is probably more important than any I&#8217;ve written or will write in the future.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/461"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=461"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/461\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":462,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/461\/revisions\/462"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=461"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=461"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=461"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}