{"id":503,"date":"2011-01-14T09:52:04","date_gmt":"2011-01-14T17:52:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/scotthyoung.com\/members\/?p=503"},"modified":"2011-01-14T09:52:04","modified_gmt":"2011-01-14T17:52:04","slug":"ass-kicking-email-self-knowledge-is-the-key-to-accomplishment-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/?p=503","title":{"rendered":"Ass-Kicking Email &#8211; Self-Knowledge is the Key to Accomplishment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hey,<\/p>\n<p>Last week I briefly talked about how you can &#8220;invent&#8221; your own<br \/>\nlearning tactics (or also, how I&#8217;ve been able to write all these<br \/>\nbooks and course material).<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>This week, I&#8217;m going to tell you about a much broader application<br \/>\nof the same idea&#8211;how self-knowledge is essential to fixing any<br \/>\nproblem with accomplishing anything. More, I&#8217;m going to tell you<br \/>\nhow you can build that self-knowledge.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Self-Knowledge is the Key<\/p>\n<p>What do I mean by self-knowledge?<\/p>\n<p>Well think to a really common problem: procrastination.<\/p>\n<p>The difficulty with finding an answer to this problem is that<br \/>\nprocrastination, as a symptom, can have any one of a number of<br \/>\nunderlying diseases as a root cause:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Being too tired<br \/>\n&#8211; Lack of focus<br \/>\n&#8211; Lack of organization<br \/>\n&#8211; Feeling lazy (the so-called &#8220;bootstrapping&#8221; problem)<br \/>\n&#8211; No goals<br \/>\n&#8211; Wrong goals<br \/>\n&#8211; etc.<\/p>\n<p>The reason solving procrastination is difficult for most people<br \/>\nisn&#8217;t that &#8220;curing&#8221; these afflictions is particularly hard.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not.<\/p>\n<p>If your problem was simply being too tired, then a good night of<br \/>\nsleep and some exercise would probably cure you.<\/p>\n<p>If your problem was lack of organization, plug in weekly\/daily goals<br \/>\nand you can get back on track.<\/p>\n<p>If your problem was &#8220;feeling&#8221; lazy, then going through a motivation<br \/>\nritual I&#8217;ve described in past emails can often be the fix.<\/p>\n<p>No, the reason that curing procrastination is difficult is that you<br \/>\nmay not know the root cause. Like a doctor who doesn&#8217;t know the<br \/>\naffliction of the patient, you&#8217;re prescribing random drugs to<br \/>\npossibly combat diseases that don&#8217;t even exist.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>This is where self-knowledge comes in. If you know yourself well,<br \/>\nin a realistic and not just an idealistic way, you can identify<br \/>\nwhat the root cause of your problems is and put in real action plans<br \/>\nto fix it.<\/p>\n<p>Self-knowledge is knowing the difference from procrastinating due<br \/>\nto lack of focus and procrastinating due to subconscious sabotage<br \/>\nfrom setting the wrong goals.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>How Do You Build Self-Knowledge?<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, there&#8217;s no easy answer. But there have been two<br \/>\npractices in my life that when used jointly have made it much easier<br \/>\nfor me to self-diagnose and cure my own problems.<\/p>\n<p>The first is keeping a journal. The second is record-keeping of<br \/>\nexperiments.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Keeping a Journal<\/p>\n<p>The point of a journal isn&#8217;t to have some permanent record of your<br \/>\ndaily life for future civilizations or when you enter senility. The<br \/>\npurpose is expressed in the present:<\/p>\n<p>Having a journal allows you to &#8220;think through&#8221; issues on paper,<br \/>\nwhich allows you to organize your thoughts much more cohesively<br \/>\nthan if you just speak aloud in your head.<\/p>\n<p>So if I were faced with a particularly long bout of procrastination,<br \/>\nI could start with the header, &#8220;Why am I procrastinating?&#8221; I could<br \/>\nthen go through a bunch of different root causes and explore them<br \/>\nto see if they applied to my situation.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously for a simple case like procrastination this may be<br \/>\nunnecessary. Self-knowledge doesn&#8217;t require lengthy introspective<br \/>\nsessions to work, although regular journaling can help.<\/p>\n<p>The point is that if you get in the habit of doing this, you notice<br \/>\npatterns more quickly and respond to them in time.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Record-Keeping of Experiments<\/p>\n<p>We all work through problems by trial-and-error. The tragedy is that<br \/>\nmost of us forget our lessons learned and make the same mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>By journaling down what you try to do to solve problems, what works<br \/>\nand what doesn&#8217;t, you have a physical record of your past successes.<br \/>\nThis allows you to scroll back through time and consult your past<br \/>\nthinking when finding new solutions to problems.<\/p>\n<p>By using record-keeping with journaling, you can generalize<br \/>\nsolutions from problems and answer your difficulties before they<br \/>\ncome up again.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, Last week I briefly talked about how you can &#8220;invent&#8221; your own learning tactics (or also, how I&#8217;ve been able to write all these books and course material).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/503"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=503"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/503\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":564,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/503\/revisions\/564"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}