{"id":507,"date":"2011-01-14T09:55:06","date_gmt":"2011-01-14T17:55:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/scotthyoung.com\/members\/?p=507"},"modified":"2011-01-14T09:55:06","modified_gmt":"2011-01-14T17:55:06","slug":"ass-kicking-email-kill-stress-by-avoiding-hard-deadlines-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.scotthyoung.com\/members\/?p=507","title":{"rendered":"Ass-Kicking Email &#8211; Kill stress by avoiding hard deadlines"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hey,<\/p>\n<p>In this email I&#8217;m going to share with you a simple tactic that can<br \/>\ngreatly reduce the stress you face in your studies.<\/p>\n<p>That tactic is simple: avoid hard deadlines whenever possible.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>What is a &#8220;Hard&#8221; Deadline?<\/p>\n<p>I like to distinguish two types of deadlines you might face&#8211;hard<br \/>\nand soft.<\/p>\n<p>A hard deadline is a deadline that has an objective consequence if<br \/>\nyou&#8217;re late. The due date on most academic assignments fit into this<br \/>\npicture nicely. Finish late and you lose marks or fail.<\/p>\n<p>A soft deadline, in contrast, is a deadline that only has a<br \/>\nsubjective consequence. This means that if you miss it, nothing<br \/>\nterrible will happen, but you may feel bad for not getting it done.<\/p>\n<p>An example of a soft deadline is wanting to finish your essay this<br \/>\nweek, even though it isn&#8217;t due in a month. There is psychological<br \/>\npressure to finish&#8211;but that&#8217;s it. There&#8217;s no objective consequences<br \/>\nto not meeting this &#8220;soft&#8221; deadline.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Avoid Hard Deadlines<\/p>\n<p>The key to avoiding a lot of stress is to avoid having your &#8220;hard&#8221;<br \/>\ndeadline be the same as your actual deadline for stress-enabling<br \/>\ntasks.<\/p>\n<p>Any big tasks that cause you a lot of stress are better done on a<br \/>\nsoft deadline. There are two reasons for this, one obvious, the<br \/>\nother more subtle.<\/p>\n<p>The obvious reason to use soft deadlines is that you have a mistake<br \/>\nzone if something goes wrong. If you&#8217;re sick, missing a key paper<br \/>\nor simply can&#8217;t finish on time, you&#8217;ll still be fine. This is the<br \/>\nreason most students think of when they feel they &#8220;should&#8221; finish<br \/>\nassignments ahead of their due date.<\/p>\n<p>It turns out that isn&#8217;t the big reason why to use soft deadlines.<br \/>\nAlthough this logic is true, some people perform better under<br \/>\npressure. Also, it requires more discipline to finish things in<br \/>\nadvance than to just do them on time.<\/p>\n<p>The real reason soft deadlines are powerful is because hard<br \/>\ndeadlines tend to clump.<\/p>\n<p>It would be nice to live in a world where all the deadlines were<br \/>\nevenly distributed. But that isn&#8217;t the case.<\/p>\n<p>Midterms, final papers, exams and projects tend to clump so that a<br \/>\nlot of assignments will be due in a small period and there will be<br \/>\ngaps with relatively few deadlines.<\/p>\n<p>This means if you rely on hard deadlines to motivate yourself,<br \/>\nyour work schedule will oscillate between being completely<br \/>\noverwhelmed and free during the term.<\/p>\n<p>Using soft deadlines allows you to strategically shift this burden<br \/>\naway, so that you can do a minimal, constant amount of work and<br \/>\nnever have to cram or crunch again.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Harder &#8220;Soft&#8221; Deadlines<\/p>\n<p>The key to getting this system to work, however, is to build up the<br \/>\nmental habit of thinking of your &#8220;soft&#8221; deadlines in harder terms.<\/p>\n<p>This can be a tricky mental habit to form&#8211;especially if you&#8217;re used<br \/>\nto relying on due dates to motivate yourself.<\/p>\n<p>However, here are a few suggestions I have for making it work:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; In your calendar, mark both the hard and soft deadline. This will<br \/>\nremind you both of when something is actually due and when you<br \/>\nwant to strategically finish it early.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Use your weekly daily goals to &#8220;push&#8221; items further down the<br \/>\ncalendar into your schedule.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Get in the habit of emphasizing your personal schedule over any<br \/>\nobjective one. This habit allows you to work on your terms, not<br \/>\non anyone else&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<p>Once you have harder &#8220;soft&#8221; deadlines, you can rely on this personal<br \/>\nschedule to smooth out the normal irregularities in your classes.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve often been surprised to find that when actually doing this, I<br \/>\ncan greatly reduce my subjective feeling of busyness, because I work<br \/>\na minimal amount each week, instead of just in large clumps near the<br \/>\nend.<\/p>\n<p>Moreover, it&#8217;s easier to habituate yourself to a certain amount of<br \/>\nwork each week, than large bursts, so the habitual work goes<br \/>\nunnoticed.<\/p>\n<p>Good luck with this tactic, and I&#8217;ll see you on the other side!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, In this email I&#8217;m going to share with you a simple tactic that can greatly reduce the stress you face in your studies. 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