Scott H Young

Writing to Solve Personal Problems


An incredibly powerful technique for solving problems is by simply writing it down. It seems rather simple, but it can often allow you to solve problems you previously thought were impossible.

I remember in the first computer science class I took, I had to do an assignment where I was to take the task of cooking pasta and write out completely the steps required to complete the task. This was my first formal introduction to algorithms. For those who aren’t aware, an algorithm is basically just the process you need to use to solve a problem.

So for my pasta example I started with:

1) Boil Water
2) Add dried pasta
3) Cook for several minutes
4) Drain
5) Serve

But by writing it down you start to notice even more sub-steps you hadn’t thought about. So your pasta process could get incredibly complex, even to details such as:

1) Find Pot
2) Fill Pot with Water
3) Place Pot on element
4) Turn Element to High
5) Place Lid on Pot
6) Wait until water in Pot is boiling


The process of determining out how to cook pasta wasn’t difficult, however it was done to illustrate a point. The point was that solving problems, in this case culinary, and designing solutions was easier when you wrote it down. This skill would then be applied to computer programming, where it was beneficial to design code on paper first before trying to type it into the compiler.

While this method of problem solving would seem obvious, I’m amazed at how few people actually use it. If you aren’t sure why this method of solving personal problems is obvious I’ll explain.

Calculate 9024 x 2045 = ? in your head.

Can you do it? I know I can’t. But I’m sure if you wrote the problem down on paper you could solve it.

This is why it amazes me why so few people actually write down their thoughts when exploring a personal problem. If you can’t solve a simple arithmetic problem in your head, I don’t see how you can adequately solve an often immensely complex personal problem.

I think that one of the major reasons that this form of problem solving isn’t used more often is because we aren’t used to using it. Most of us are used to solving problems in our heads. This can work great when the problem is relatively easy to solve, but it can create a mess when we try to solve difficult problems.

There are two methods I like to use to write for solutions.

The first method of writing is just to take a piece of paper out (I prefer a word processing program because I type much faster than I can write manually). Then simply write down, in words, whatever thoughts you are having.

I think many of us are conditioned to write in proper grammatical sentences and use coherent thoughts in paragraphs. Don’t worry about that! You are trying to write your thoughts not compose an essay. Spending your mental resources editing your work will just take longer, so just write uninhibited. If you are using a word processing program, you might want to take grammar and spell checks off so that you don’t feel compelled to auto correct.

The key here is to just keep writing. Don’t stop until your problem is solved. Unless you have passed into a coma and stopped thinking, you always have thoughts you can write. Just commit yourself to keep writing until your problem is solved. If you can’t write or type fast enough use sentence fragments or shortened words to keep your writing speed and thought speeds comparable.

I usually start this process by writing about the problem. By writing about what my problem is I usually can obtain a lot more clarity on how to fix it. Usually after I write the problem down my thoughts automatically center on solutions, even to partial problems.

I continue this process until I am confident I have an answer. If my answer is long and complex (which it often is), I often write a good copy of my answer to further refine my solution and also to serve as a record in case I want to refer back to my solution.

The second method I like to use is more visual and less linear. I usually use this process for solving computer programming oriented problems as they tend to be geometric, requiring me to think in branching directions rather than a straight path.

To start this method take a pencil and a piece of paper (computers won’t work for this one) and start using words, shapes and quick illustrations to draw your problem. This process is like a less rigid form of brainstorming. Just write things anywhere on the paper.

If you want to make a connection between several thoughts then draw an arrow connecting them. By creating this map of pictures, shapes and words you can form a mental map of your problem and it becomes a lot easier to see possible solutions.

Remember not to stop writing and think inside your head. You should be writing what your thinking, not thinking about what to write! This can be tricky to keep up, but it will keep you focused on a solution.

I keep a journal in a word processing document in my computer. This way I bring it up and simply write all of my thoughts whenever I have a problem, or if I simply feel confused and I don’t know what my problem is! Usually after twenty minutes of writing I feel much better about the problem and have some ideas for how to resolve issues in my own life.

This blog itself is even an extention of that writing process. Although my articles here are done with more precision and care than a journal or brainstorming session, this writing process allows me to clarify my own thoughts and intentions.
Do you currently have a problem in your life you have been unable to solve? Try writing it out and I think you will be surprised at how much more effective it is than simply trying to solve it inside your head.


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16 Responses to “Writing to Solve Personal Problems”

  1. Your blog is very interesting and full of stimulating insights. Good luck with WordPress. We like it a lot. I’ve found that the e-mail notification plugin is a good one because it allows you to have a subscribing audience that is more personal than RSS. Motivation, self-help, self improvement– these have always been interests of mine. I’m glad to see that someone out there has the presence of mind to write about them. Thanks for doing this!

    Richard

  2. Scott Young says:

    Thanks Richard for the points.

    I’ll check out those plugins. I’m not a blogging expert, but I learn fast. Thats the whole idea of personal development though, isn’t it? Do what you don’t know how?

  3. Erich says:

    Scott,

    I’ve been writing in various personal journals since I was 7 1/2 (I’m 31 now). Having ‘voiced’ my struggles on paper has been a real tonic in my life. It’s been a real blessing to see how much I’ve grown over the years, and how much this process has helped with that growth. Thanks for the post!

  4. Scott Young says:

    Great to hear, Erich!

  5. Syed says:

    As I have been reading your article, I simultaneously acted on your advice. The problem I chose was how to bring more traffic to my blog. And after writing down the possible steps I can take, I suddenly got more ideas and was also able to organize my thoughts in a proper order.

    Thanks for the advice.

  6. Thanraj says:

    Man…………..i read ur article …………u r simply great ………..
    hats off to u……………..

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  10. KJ says:

    Thanks for the post. I found it at the top of Google’s search for “writing, problem solving.” I enjoyed it!

  11. David says:

    Hey im a 16 years old guy, i have problems with my family i dont know how to solve it.The problem is that i dont get good grades ive tried everything but it just doesnt work, this year my grades all went down because of my family, everyday when i get home from school all i hear is yelling and complaining about bad economy and shit i just cant focus on my studying.
    My dad says if i get bad grades one more time he will send me to europe alone to study wich i think is wrong, so i would like someone to give me advice or show me the way to solve this conflict.

  12. shreevidya says:

    yes, this has really worked for me.

  13. C. from California says:

    I have bunch of cousins and i love j. She goes to Usc and so she visits often. I have a bunch of other cousins I havent met and a girl named Lydia and her friend are visitng from Australia ( Lydia is my cousin) and they are 23 or 22 years old except for J. She is 18 but loves to hang out with them. Anyways she loves to hang with me too but its not the same. Recently she, me, her friend and my late 20’s year old cousin took us to eat. Afterwards, they wanted to go somewhere but i couldnt go. They decided to drop me off at my parents house. thing is, my dad is super protective and “hates” them. I was very mad and almost cried in front of them but i kept my cool. They wanted to go to Dave and Busters and i decided to go with them but they said after 10:00 p.m. the people there would check i.d. so i couldnt go. i was super mad because obviously j wouldnt be able to go either but they were letting her go they were “joking about fake i.d.s for j but never did t=cause the older cousins friends were not as young. I hated it when they dropped me off because they treated me like just an add on that could be taken off later. They never take me to places even to just get out of the house. at night i mean. they are really nice but still…. anyways my 17 year old siste, s wanted to go and i said she couldnt cause they check i.d. and s said she wants me to come and i said they wouldnt let me go. They said no i wont take her okay?! Tey took two underage kids to a half bar half video game place that my dad used to take me to all the time. But they went at ten so yeah. but my life is so boring and painful that when they visit, its so fun most of the time but right when they left, i started crying that they took s. because evem though i didnt care if i went, they couldve just left s. home so i could talk to someone but they obviously dont care. thats when i realize j. was what made me happy! I was angry though so i bawled and started typing. I hate when i cry cause they say its useless to cry about ” such small things” but they dont understand so i have to fake like im happy. IT SUCKS! i have horrible school hours, an hour and a half tutoring at 5 p.m. and constantly yelling and discouraging parents. theyre awesome but they yell so much. One overprotective and the other very shrill. I hate it! They wont allow me to get B’s in school and they call me dumb then apologize the next day! ugghhh! my stress is higher than s. and she applied for colleges recently! i know because months ago we took a test thing and my stress was highest. Please how do i get over it?! please help me asap! whenever i try to make plans to go with them, it falls apar! Helpppp!

  14. JAYZ says:

    Thanks I’ll try it out!

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